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3 Things You Need to Stop Doing Now

Writer's picture: Samantha HearneSamantha Hearne

Success is waiting for you, but if it feels like it’s just out of reach, you might be getting in your own way. It’s not uncommon to see ambitious, driven women unknowingly block their own path to greatness. If that resonates with you, it’s time to stop.


Read on for three behaviours you need to let go of to unlock the success you deserve.


1. Stop Seeking Validation and Permission

Do you find yourself constantly asking, “Is this enough?” Relying on likes, comments, or external approval can keep you stuck in a loop of self-doubt. Whether it’s waiting for feedback from a coach or obsessively monitoring reactions to your work, this habit dilutes your energy and focus. Instead, start operating from a place of certainty and clarity. When you trust yourself, your actions will naturally align with your goals. The need for validation fades, and you’ll notice a shift in your intentionality and confidence.


2. Stop Obsessing Over Outcomes

The biggest trap on the road to success is focusing too much on the end result. The success of others can be inspiring, but obsessing over their outcomes—like their revenue or public achievements—only distracts you from your own journey. Shift your attention to their process instead.

  • What habits have they cultivated?

  • How do they structure their days?

  • Where are they committing their energy, and why?

The outcome is just the byproduct of a consistent journey. By embracing this mindset, you’ll set yourself up for your own success.


3. Stop Selling with Numbers in Mind

If every sale you make is tied to a spreadsheet or monthly goal, you’re missing the bigger picture. True impact comes from purpose, not profit. When you focus solely on numbers, you risk losing sight of the mission that drives you. Building a business or career with ease, balance, and alignment doesn’t come from obsessing over financial outcomes. It comes from creating a ripple effect of value and purpose that will naturally bring success your way.


If you're ready to STOP doing these things in 2025, and create the success you're aiming for, then join me for my free training: “£250k the Simple Way.” This is a LIVE training happening on January 21st. Register to save your spot now!

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